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What do I do to prevent getting pregnant?

By Daily independent/Agatha - Nigeriafilms.com

I'm 16 and in Senior Secondary School. In the last couple of months, I have been receiving different kinds of interests and attention from both young and old men.

Although, my mother has never ceased to warn me about the consequences of allowing men come too close to me, I can't help the delightful feelings I get whenever I get such attention from men.

I do have a boyfriend. All we have done is kiss and a little bit of romance. But, he is beginning to complain and threatening to leave me for another girl who will give him everything he wants from her.

He is in his final year and would be writing his secondary school leaving examinations from April. I'm in SS2.

My fear is: If I don't give in to his demands now, I might lose him completely once he leaves school. I love him too much and don't want another girl taking my place.

He has assured me that once, won't get me pregnant and that there are drugs he would give me subsequently that would prevent pregnancy. My friends, who have gone all the way, assure me of such drugs.

Also, I'm tired of being made fun of by my friends who think I'm being childish and archaic in what they describe as a very modern world. They say men no longer cherish the big V (virgin) that they want experienced girls by their side.

I really want to belong; but I don't want anything to interfere with my education in line with my mother's warnings.

What do I do to ensure I don't get pregnant?

Bola

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i.t | 4/10/2014 11:06:00 AM
u av 2 b vry careful
JaZZyWals | 4/10/2014 6:25:00 PM
Don't give in to that temptation. Giving in makes you to sin against God and your body because guilt follows the act outside marriage. Giving in does not make him glued to you aside the fact that you lose your self respect among others.

Take your stand and dare to be different.
OFEM WISDOM OFEM | 4/10/2014 10:13:00 PM
He will not see ur beauty anymore once he enters,and ur body is d temple of d living God.
OFEM WISDOM OFEM | 4/10/2014 10:13:00 PM
He will not see ur beauty anymore once he enters,and ur body is d temple of d living God.
OFEM WISDOM OFEM | 4/10/2014 10:13:00 PM
He will not see ur beauty anymore once he enters,and ur body is d temple of d living God.
OFEM WISDOM OFEM | 4/10/2014 10:13:00 PM
He will not see ur beauty anymore once he enters,and ur body is d temple of d living God.
Saminu Ahmad | 4/11/2014 6:26:00 PM
Once you leave him enter,he will leave you and get another one.Please,don't damage your breach of privacy and your education.
Saminu Ahmad | 4/11/2014 6:26:00 PM
Once you leave him enter,he will leave you and get another one.Please,don't damage your breach of privacy and your education.
pleasant | 4/11/2014 10:15:00 PM
dnt allow him to take ur bride away coz u will regret
odo godwin | 4/15/2014 12:02:00 PM
Resist the devil and it will fly Away from you
Daniel Anison | 4/17/2014 12:20:00 PM
It's quite obvious that ur conscience is alive! Consider the prons &cons! Ur mom's advice, what the consequencies might be, ur education, 5mins pleasure? Ur religious stand? Hmm...... No advice given to u here will be able to outweigh that which ur consciences convinces u to do! If ur mind gives u a go-ahead order, go on! But if it doesn't, I bet regrets shall follow instantaneously. Iyanya put forth the lyrics: "All I Want Is Ur" If he takes what he wants, he leaves u! Lolz! Be wise ladies/little girls that has no mentor!