Can you grab your man’s organ when fighting?

By SaturdayTribune
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No two human beings are the same and that is why children who are born by the same parents do not behave in the same way and manner. Even twins who were born on the same day, by the same mother, even if they are identical, can never behave in exactly the same way.

The reason for this lies in the fact that God, the creator of heaven and earth, has made each one to be unique in different ways and that is why He gave each of us different abilities and gifts.

In relationships, because men and women are different in their physiological and psychological make ups coupled with the fact that they are from different backgrounds, there will always be conflicting interests.

When this happens,it is the level of maturity of the couple that will determine whether the conflict will result into a lover's tiff or a full fledged war which might lead to a physical combat, leaving one or both couple injured.

Sometimes, when fighting, one of the couple may hit on the private part of the person thereby causing him great pains. This was exactly what Kehinde did to her boyfriend, Kunle recently.

Kunle was coming back from work that Monday afternoon when he saw his sweetheart, Kehinde discussing with another guy in front of their apartment. When he got to where the duo were standing, Kehinde greeted him and continued with the discussion.

Kunle entered the apartment and waited for Kenny, as he fondly calls her, to join him and welcome him home properly but rather than do that,she stayed where she was.After some time,Kunle came out, saw Kenny still chatting with the guy and pounced on her.Before anyone could say Jack Robbins, Kunle had given Kenny a black eye. In retaliation, Kenny grabbed Kunle's organ.

Kunle screamed out in agony but Kenny did not let go. It took the intervention of neighbours to save the loverboy from being castrated by his girlfriend.

Despite the fact that it was Kunle who started the fight, many people condemned Kenny's act. They were of the opinion that a 'responsible lady' should never engage in such a dastard act of manhandling her partner.

RELATIONSHIPS went to town to ask ladies on whether they would grab their man's organ when fighting?

Adeola Adeagbo: No way, how on earth would I grab my guy's organ all in the name of fighting. My man will always be my man. So I can never hurt him in that manner because I know the consequence of a woman grabbing a man's organ. One might break his scotrum and when this happens, it means I have rendered him useless in life. How will I now bear children for him in the future? So it's better for me to endure his beating than for me to destroy his life. What I will do is to keep praying for him and waking him up in night to advise and pacify him. I believe that with time, he will heed to my advise and we will start enjoying our marriage.

Aderonke Adepoju: No, I cannot, because my husband's organ is his power house. It's one of the basic reasons why we are called husband and wife. The fight is a temporary thing and after we might have settled the fight, the damage would have been done, even if a fight erupts, we will resolve it amicably as long as love exists.

Tutu Bassy: I can do it because some guys are very wicked and inconsiderate. A decent guy would know that it's an abomination to lay hands on a woman, either a wife, girl friend or any lady. So, I can grab his dick to teach him a lesson. In Nigeria nowadays, it should be in the constitution that a man should not touch or beat a woman, so I am imploring the House of Assembly to pass it into law in order to protect women from public harassment.

Bunmi Odumoye: It's not possible for me to grab my man's organ because both of us have the fear of God. Also, when a relationship is based on the word of God, misunderstanding will occur but would be able to tackle it in the way of God. So, it's not possible for me and my husband to get involved in a combat.

Yinka Idowu: I can't do that, because it doesn't seem right. How can I grab my man's organ? Even if he offends me, we will settle it amicably as long as there is love between us.

Adewunmi: Capital No. There are many things that may happen when one is angry, people normally say that anger is a temporary madness, indeed it is. So I can't grab it at all. We can later come together after fighting, but the moment of anger, I can never grab his organ.

Mrs. O.A. Familua: It's not possible for me to do such a thing because once we fight, we are going settle the matter amicably between us.

Evang/Mrs. Ajayi: My husband is a pastor, so I cannot grab his organ when we are fighting. We don't usually fight, but even if we quarrel, we'll settle it amicably.

Akinyemi Oluyinka: The answer is no because if after the fight, the organ fails to function, I personally will be affected. Moreso, he is the father of my children and it's normal for two individuals from different backgrounds to fight because of the different trainings they both received, but if the relationship is based on “love” they will both settle the differences between themselves.

By SaturdayTribune