Drowning Voices In A Noisy Age
Many have voices, but few truly own them. In an era where people can barely identify their voices as timelines refresh by the second and opinions compete for attention, clarity has become not just desirable but essential.
In this contemporary world, distinct voices are heard; noise abounds, and opinions multiply. And in the name of trends, fallacy is normalized and absurdity subtly indoctrinated. Many individuals have become overwhelmed by the cacophony of social media; as a result, they can no longer identify, let alone, own their voices.
The Cambridge Dictionary defines voice as “an important quality or opinion that someone expresses.” However, in the context of identity, voice is a distinct form of identity unique to individuals. In other words, voice is the manner in which an individual thinks, behaves, speaks, and responds to situations, which makes them different from others.
Interestingly, every human being has a voice, although it may not be owned. Voice transcends mere expression. It is conviction; it is identity. It is knowing who you are, and representing that identity without being distracted by external noise.
Evidently, it is safe to say that a substantial number of factors are responsible for the loss of many voices, one of which is a lack of self-definition. When one does not have a clear understanding of one’s worth and identity, one tends to agree with everything one sees and hears.
An example can be drawn from gender controversies surrounding how bills should be split between spouses. Some individuals, simply because they find their gender supporting a particular position, tend to agree with it even when their personal beliefs say otherwise. Gradually, one begins to lose one’s voice by giving room to the overwhelming opinions of others. The fact that everyone says something is right does not necessarily make it right.
An ideology is currently trending on social media, particularly TikTok, where some young adults publicly claim to “train” older women by beating them if they trespass boundaries. It surprises me to see many people supporting such movements, not necessarily because they are right or wrong, but because they do not fully own their voices. They accept and agree with whatever information they are exposed to without filtering it. They do not question; they consume everything like garri.
To conclude, voice is a marker of identity, and having a voice without owning it will only reduce it to a diminuendo. In a world of diverse opinions and interpretations, identity is a prerequisite. Hence, self-definition is necessary for those who want their voices to be heard.
Motunrayo Mary Joel is a graduate of English Language from Lagos State University, Ojo.