A Psychologist's Open Letter To Governor Fubara: Stay Vigilant, Defend Against Wike's Influence
Governor Siminalayi Fubara, I write to you today with a profound sense of concern and urgency, deeply moved by the recent political upheaval that has gripped Nigeria's beloved Rivers State. The eloquence of Ugoji Egbujo's words in his poignant opinion piece in the media resonates profoundly, reminding us that the lessons of history must guide our present actions.
The ongoing crisis, as vividly captured in Egbujo's words, has cast a dark shadow over our state. Shakespeare's timeless wisdom, "Uneasy lies the head that wears the crown," encapsulates the essence of your leadership today. The decisions you make in these challenging times will not only define your legacy but also shape the destiny of our state. Your recent apology, titled "Peace is Priceless," struck a chord with us, showcasing your unwavering commitment to peace, stability, and progress in Rivers State.
It would have been unforgivable if you had apologized to your political kidnapper, who has been strangulating and suffocating you until now. It is commendable that you have finally escaped and shared your story with the world. We applaud your wisdom in directing your apology to the people of Rivers State, allowing you to breathe freely again.
Your recent apology, a profound act of humility and leadership, speaks volumes. It acknowledges the "regrettable anxieties of the last few days," revealing your acute understanding of the gravity of the situation. However, beyond the surface, beneath the layers of political intricacies, lies a deeper truth – the essence of leadership and the psychological dynamics at play. Your deliberate act of humility and leadership is what the state and the people need in these trying times.
The unfolding political drama involving you and your so-called political godfather, Nyesom Wike, a minister and former governor of your state, underscores the complexities faced by leaders of integrity. Wike's attempts at manipulation are evident, driven by wounded pride and a desperate desire to regain control. The power vested in you by the people of Rivers State is a sacred trust, and your vigilance against those who seek to undermine it is paramount.
In the face of grave adversity, your steadfast decision not to apologize to your political captor reflects immense strength of character and resilience. We wholeheartedly commend your wisdom in choosing to direct your apology to the people of Rivers State. He would have loved you to openly apologize to him; oh no, that would have empowered him to assert, 'I was right; he apologized to me openly,' making you his ongoing domestic political and financial servant.
Your deliberate act of humility and exemplary leadership stands as a beacon of hope in these turbulent times. Such decisive actions resonate deeply with the citizens and underline your commitment to the greater good of our state.
Governor, the psychological landscape of leadership is as critical as the political one. It requires immense inner strength and resilience to withstand the storms that come your way. The recent crisis, orchestrated by your political godfather, was an attempt to manipulate not just political narratives but also psychological perceptions. His possible authoritarian and narcissistic games, attempting to control your choices and associations, were aimed at breaking your spirit. He sought to diminish your self-esteem, making you doubt your decisions and eroding your confidence.
In facing his onslaught, you exhibited remarkable courage. You demonstrated that a leader’s self-worth is not determined by the whims of political puppeteers but by the integrity of one's decisions. Your refusal to bow to his pressures, your ability to see beyond the veils of manipulation, and your resilience in the face of psychological warfare showed the world your strength of character.
It’s essential to note Nyesom Wike's position as a minister and former governor. Despite his current role, his actions and attempts to manipulate your administration must not go unchecked. Your dedication to addressing the core issues of governance, justice, and the welfare of the people should guide your decisions. Stay vigilant and resolute in upholding the principles of good governance, regardless of the challenges posed by influential figures like Wike. Stay focused on the welfare and progress of Rivers State, ensuring that the state's affairs are not unduly influenced by any individual, regardless of their political stature or past positions. Your commitment to the people's well-being and your determination to lead with integrity will ultimately define your legacy as a leader.
Wike’s attempts to control you failed miserably, crumbling against your unwavering resolve. His psychological tactics – the attempts to showcase support, the feigned alliances, the orchestrated visits from powerful figures – were all mere facades, veils attempting to mask his defeat. Globally, leaders with psychopathic and antisocial tendencies often resort to such tactics, trying to portray false strength when they are, in fact, the ones wounded and defeated.
Your ability to see through these manipulative strategies and stand firm against them is a testament to your strength and discernment. By refusing to succumb to his apparent emotionalgames, you have demonstrated true leadership, rooted in integrity and resilience. It is a reminder that genuine strength comes not from manipulation and deceit but from honesty, authenticity, and the unwavering support of the people you serve."
Governor, you have triumphed psychologically. You have emerged not as a victim of political machinations but as a symbol of resilience and strength. The support you received against the impeachment plot was not just a political victory; it was a psychological triumph over tyranny. It shattered the illusion of invincibility carefully crafted by your political godfather.
My message emphasizes Wike's manipulative tactics, attempting to shift focus from his abuse of power by playing the ethnic card. By recognizing this diversionary strategy, it becomes crucial to maintain focus on addressing the core issues of governance, justice, and the welfare of the people. Ignoring these tactics ensures that discussions remain centered on matters that truly impact the lives of the citizens, fostering transparency and accountability in the political discourse.
As you stand at this pivotal juncture, remember this: the power you hold is not merely political; it's psychological. It's the power to inspire, to instill hope, and to lead by example. Be the governor who stands tall against the tactics of tyrants, who listens to the voices of the people, and who leads Rivers State toward a future of genuine progress and prosperity.
It is paramount to recall the perilous circumstances you endured when you were targeted, facing threats from various instruments and deadly means. The gravity of these past events necessitates a heightened level of vigilance. We implore you to exercise extreme caution, especially in the presence of individuals closely associated with Wike. Your personal safety and well-being should be safeguarded at all costs. This vigilance must extend to monitoring your food and drinks meticulously, as these are potential avenues through which ill-intentioned adversaries could compromise your security.
In these testing times, I urge you to surround yourself with individuals who share your vision for the state. Your inner circle should comprise trustworthy advisors, loyal not to a person but to the ideals and aspirations of Rivers State. Transparency, openness, and clear communication should be the pillars of your administration. By fostering a culture of truth and accountability, you will disarm the plots of those who thrive in deception and ambiguity.
Furthermore, it is crucial to acknowledge the potential influence that Wike exerts, even over law enforcement agencies and the judiciary. This influence raises concerns about the misuse of tear gas and water cannons by the police. Given this context, it is imperative to take proactive measures to shield not only yourself but also those around you from any undue harm. Your safety, as well as the safety of the people who support you, should be the topmost priority in the face of such threats. Mr. Governor, consider this: you could have been blinded, injured, or even lost your life, and nothing would have happened in a compromised criminal justice system.
In these challenging times, vigilance and preparedness are paramount. By staying ahead of potential threats and safeguarding the welfare of all, you can ensure that the ideals of justice, democracy, and the well-being of the citizens remain the guiding principles in Rivers State. By prioritizing the safety and security of everyone involved, you reinforce the strength of your leadership and your commitment to a future where the people's voices are heard and valued above all else."
Governor Fubara, your integrity is your greatest asset. Uphold it unwaveringly, for it will shield you against the storms that may come your way. Be resolute, be courageous, and do not succumb to the pressures of political manipulation. Your decisions should be guided by the will of the people, ensuring that the collective voice of Rivers State resonates louder than the whispers of a select few.
Nyesom Wike’s attempts to control you failed miserably, crumbling against your unwavering resolve. His psychological tactics – the attempts to showcase support, the feigned alliances, the orchestrated visits from powerful figures – were all mere facades, veils attempting to mask his defeat. Leaders with psychopathic and antisocial tendencies often resort to such tactics, trying to portray false strength when they are, in fact, the ones wounded and defeated.
As you traverse the intricate political labyrinth, reach out to fellow leaders within the state who share your unwavering commitment to progress and fairness. Forge alliances grounded in shared values and a collective vision for a brighter tomorrow. Together, you can forge a mighty force, impervious to the machinations of those who aim to sow discord in our beloved state.
It remains imperative to recognize that Wike's current ministerial position does not absolve him from accountability. Should Governor Wike persist in his nefarious attempts to manipulate your administration, do not waver in reporting his actions confidentially to his superior, President Bola Tinubu. Tinubu possesses the authority to rectify the situation, and if Wike proves to be a hindrance to the workings of his government, he will not hesitate to take decisive measures, including relieving him of his ministerial duties.
Remember, your right to curb Wike's influence in Rivers State is fundamental, safeguarding the integrity of your leadership and ensuring the welfare of the people. Maintain your vigilance and steadfastness, upholding the bedrock principles of good governance and justice for all.
In your odyssey as the leader of Rivers State, engrave this truth upon your heart: history immortalizes leaders not merely for their triumphs but for their unyielding resilience in the face of adversity. Be the stalwart leader who stands unwavering against tyranny, who not only hears but truly listens to the voices of the people, and who steers Rivers State towards a future adorned with authentic progress and enduring prosperity.
May God bless you and the resilient people of Rivers State, shielding you from the malevolent designs of those like Wike, ensuring that you never endure the sinister clutches of his influence again. Your strength, determination, and commitment will guide our state towards a future where justice, prosperity, and genuine progress prevail.
With unwavering support and hope.
Psychologist John Egbeazien Oshodi
Professor John Egbeazien Oshodi, who was born in Uromi, Edo State, Nigeria, to a father who served in the Nigeria police for 37 years, is an American-based police and prison scientist and forensic, clinical, and legal psychologist. A sex offender assessment and treatment psychologist. A government consultant on matters of forensic-clinical psychological services in the USA; and a former interim associate dean and assistant professor at Broward College, Florida. The Founder of the Dr. John Egbeazien Oshodi Foundation, Center for Psychological Health and Behavioral Change in African Settings. In 2011, he introduced state-of-the-art forensic psychology into Nigeria through N.U.C. and Nasarawa State University, where he served in the Department of Psychology as an Associate Professor. He has taught at various universities and colleges including Florida memorial University, Florida International University, Broward college, Lynn University, and a contributing faculty member at the Weldios university in Benin Republic, Nexus International University, Uganda, Nova Southeastern University and Walden University in USA. He is a Human Rights Psychologist with a focus on African related environments. [email protected]