Fatherhood: A Privilege To Take Lives Farther
Yes , anyone can Impregnate a lady but the ability to impregnate a lady does not qualifies you to be a Father , ability to be called a father follows due responsibilities , love , care and attention for the family and a father who is also ready to accepts blames and does not run away from responsibilities , he gives hope of a brighter future to the family , father are the foundation of the family.
The role of a father in the home cannot be undervalued , a brighter/happy home depends on the role the father plays in nurturing of the family , a father who fails to perform his role in the home as expected either financially , morally , emotionally , spiritually and above all provision , guidance and protection is gradually destroying the society and nation because the component of different families makes up the society.
A father is a pillar and an architect of the home , whose role in the family and the way in which he nurtures the family either helps other members of his family to be successful or help to contribute to their failure.
Today , the world and government are battling to solve the problem of social vices ( crime , armed robbery , prostitution and terrorism ) on daily basis . The genesis of all these social inequalities cannot be underestimated from the fact that we've lost real men and father in our different home's but boy's who disguised as fathers and who continually abuse their family denying the home of peace and happiness.
To every woman , in bringing out the real fatherhood in everyman you need to show more of patience , understanding , endurance and a sense of respect to your husband because they are special pilot for the family in transporting the family to a brighter future.
To every father , potential fathers in awaiting , your wife and children are not punching bags , they are vision carrier who are imperfect being that are designed to help you achieve your purpose in life and also make life interesting for you to live-inn. As a responsible father create the necessary attention for your family when needed , never deny them of finance and care to make them happy , give them a sense of belonging as a member of the family , appreciate's their idea's and feelings to move the family forward rather than turning yourself to a mini-god that your children and wife cannot relate freely with .
Fatherhood is not just a title nor a name , its an obligation with responsibilities , to all responsible and awaiting potential fathers, I wish you a happy fathers Day .
Happy fathers Day.