Steps To Successful Communication
Listen carefully to what your spouse is saying
Respond positively when he asked you to seek clarification where necessary without exhibiting anger and bitterness.
Take positive action to do what he wants from you. Never slam the door, hiss at him or clap your hands. It is disrespectful. 'A soft answer turneth away wrath; but grievous words stir up anger'. Proverbs 15:1
Take the following steps in your marriage to have a solid communication between you and your husband:
- Be determined to have an open communication; don't delight in pet talks, back biting and gossip. It is unchristian like.
- Be positive in your communication.
- Train your to become a good listener. If you don't listen to your spouse, you cannot gain his attention and he will not listen to you too.
- Never be judgmental in your speech.
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