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Four tips to save a marriage

By Mixey Blob

It is far easer to save a marriage than be holding your head in you hands wondering how to get your ex back.

Here are 4 great tips to apply if you are trying to save your marriage. None of them are very hard to do, and they are all inexpensive. They´re very simple and common sense. Yet many people won't even give them ago, not even to a save marriage.

The first tip is to just stop arguing. Every time your partner says something that you want to get angry with or correct, just learn to let it go. By doing this you´re doing yourself and your partner a favour. When one person can learn to let things start rolling off their back, the other person will usually follow suit.

To help save your marriage, you are probably going to have to be the one to learn to let things go. You never know, your partner could also be working on the same skills at the same time. But no matter how badly both people want to save the marriage, there is usually only one person working on trying to keep the the relationship together.

If your partner thinks that shirt is blue when it´s really an odd red, just think in your head "it´s red !" and let it go.

We all have a different perspective on our partners when the relationship is new. Everything´s fresh and more exciting. After a while that freshness wears off and we start to get bored. Some call it routine and familiarity, but most people call it boring and predictable.

If you want to save your marriage, then make sure it isn´t as predictable or boring as it may have been in the past. Surprise your partner with a special gift or date night (and make sure you can reschedule, just in case they can´t go).

The third step is to love or take care of your partner in the way he or she wants to be loved or cared for. We all have things that make us happiest. Some like to be told that they´re loved constantly .Others find small gestures like you offering your scarf to them on a freezing cold day to be the most wonderful things ever.

Some might think that mowing the garden for them is the ultimate act of love, while others just want to be told "I love you" so they can feel cherished. The point is, the time you spend loving your partner will be three times more effective if you do the things that you know make them happy.

Finally, show your partner physical affectionate. Love and marriage are not all about sex, but it can be very important. If you want to save marriage, you´ll kiss and hug you partner several times throughout the day for no reason at all.