Cut Him Out Of Your Life

By Daily Graphic

We were together for over two years and things were fine between us. Last year, he met somebody else and stopped seeing me.

Even though he told me he loved her very much, he keeps coming back to me. He wants dates with me and he tells me he's still got feelings for me and he can't stop thinking about me. Should I believe him?

I don't know what to do. I just don't know what to think. If he is so much in love with this new girl why is he contacting me and saying all these things?

Ewura Abena, Haatso

Dear Ewura Abena, spare yourself the emotional stress and cut him out of your life. He is using you as his insurance policy in case things go wrong with his new girlfriend. He's playing both of you.

He says all the loving things to keep you waiting in the wings while having his fun with someone else and if things go sour well there you are. And it will continue to happen.

You're better than that so don't let it happen. Remeber you are not the first and will not be the last to be dumped.

The relationship did not work and you broke up. Find yourself a new man because you deserve so much more. Cheers.