I Fancy My Married Boss

My boss is a very fine man and I am sure he is every girl's dream of an ideal man. He is polite, good looking and dresses so well. To cut a long story short, he is so cool.

I get butterflies in my stomach every time I set eyes on him. I am crazy about him but my only problem is that he is very married.

I have tried to get him to notice me but he seems not to be interested. The thing is, I really want him. What do I do ?

Maa T, Tema

Dear Maa T, leave the man alone. The key words here are married and boss and you should steer clear of them.

Of course it's only natural to find yourself attracted to someone you work with closely day in and day out but for God's sake, yours is married.

There may be some good sides to office romance but I believe the bad sides are more. Office gossip can destroy your chances of promotion even if you work hard and deserve it.

If you have a 'bigger' boss and he discovers that you're more preoccupied with your relationship than with your job, both of you may get fired.

And I tell you when an office romance does not end very well, it can be bad. In fact it can be horrible.

Do yourself a favour and keep your business and personal lives separate. Move on, girlie.