I Suspect He's Cheating

By Daily Graphic

Dear Nana Ama,

I am 30 years of age and l have two children. Unfortunately my previous marriage broke up and due to the difficulties I encountered I decided not to accept any proposals. A man proposed to me but l rejected it.

He kept pressing me for a year with the promise that he will be a better lover. I finally accepted him because his actions convinced me he was sincere. He is at Accra while I'm in Takoradi. He used to visit me every month and we slept in a hotel together.

During one of his visits I detected he wanted to have an affair with one of the ladies who works in the hotel. I'm confused and don't know what I should do.

Eunice, Takoradi.

Dear Eunice,

Your intuition is frequently one of the best indicators that something is wrong. If you suspect he might be cheating on you, you can do one of two things:

Pay attention to the signs and your instinct and if he is cheating, you'll find out with time, but be careful and don't confuse signs with proof.

You could also do some investigating and then discuss your findings with him and allow him to explain. If you bring it up with him and he denies the possibility trust your gut instinct and keep your eyes open.