I Have Leant My Lessons With Keeping friends…….Nonso Diobi
It is difficult to give the actual reason why some Nigerian married men visit the home of a prostitute, because they varried, a man may of course simply be bored and see it as an emotional business deal and not really cheating, while some consider it as been trying some thing new?
It was gather from Naij.com that most men love hanging out with them at one point or the other. Here are the reasons they gave.
1. Men Prefer To Sleep With Hotter Women
Most married Nigerian men complained that the moment a woman is married, she losses her guard and most times cannot even 'try' to be as radiant as she used to be before she got married.
"I have been with women and I must say that the hottest women I've ever had sex with is a sex workers. Most of these harlots look sexy, ravishing and enticing. This kind of 'hotness' I am saying can only be prostitutes. My woman is too used to me to starting feigning 'hot'!, a top Lagos civil servant reveals.
Most Nigerian men prefer a stunning woman to the one that is not properly dressed.
2. When They Pay For It, They Derive More Pleasure.
Every man wants to derive satisfaction from the job paid and also most men unveil that they feel more comfortable asking for different styles and sexual postures from a prostitutes without their ego being tampered with.
42 years old Emeka gave is reasons as 'I am paying for it, so I make sure I get the best out of it. And more so I, I can ask her to do any style for me without me been looked at as a pervert. Asking her to do what I want won't make me lose my respect and lots of her things which I can make known here', he said.
Most of them said there's something very hot in being able to ask for what you want in bed and get it, no questions asked. (Although one guy did admit he paid a prostitute once so that SHE could be in charge.) But generally, they all admitted to being more open about what they wanted and more physically satisfied when they paid for sex. Emotionally, of course, remains to be seen.
3. Men love fantasy.
Trying new things really matter to men a lot when sex is concerned. This is because at a point in time, it gets boring and it is the fantasy and sexual adventures that you try out that keep you going. So most men go out to have this adventure if they cannot get it at home.
Mr Shola who is a banker gave his reasons as, “I like to try things. When I pay a prostitute, I'm not worried about what I ask for. Nothing shocks them'
4. Men like the fastest route to having sex.
"Getting a prostitute is so easy: no strings attached, you can choose [the woman you want] before you purchase, then they arrive at your door. Couldn't be easier."
All men used different methods of visiting prostitutes. While some said they use some websites, a larger percentage revealed that they visit a brothel and another set got the prostitute's number via personal connection. But they all agreed: it was the quickest way to get sex when they feel the urge.
5. We want to avoid complications.
Men prefer a sexual experience with no drama and no commitment whatsoever. For the married ones, they do not want sex that they have to beg for; men prefer sex without all the promises and all.
"We want to have sex without all the drama. I just want to have sex without the need to beg for it. I want sex without my wife reminding me all what needs to be done in the house instead of having sex at the moment", another middle-aged, Lagos-based man revealed.
With all the reasons given by most men, i think most married women need to improve in their sex life in other not to give rooms to their husbands visiting homes of the prostitutes.